The husband brings his wife to the maternity hospital and remains behind the threshold. Familiar, isn’t it a picture? So in all maternity hospitals – after all, it is a shame and it is necessary that everything be clean. But everything can be otherwise. Before we knew this only from reports from some foreign clinics. Now, more and more couples are striving to “give birth together”. Since the first such clans, there has still been a shortage of those who wanted to “give birth together”. Many spouses believe that at this crucial moment they should be together. During childbirth, Rakhmanov’s bed should be used.
What are the advantages of family births? The presence of her husband improves the psychological contact of the spouses. A woman feels more confident and calmer, controls herself better and, as doctors say, does not allow herself to bloom.
“A person is conceived in sin and born into abomination. . .” – says the hero of Roman R. P. Warren “All royal army”. But doctors say: our women give birth beautifully.
There are also reasons to complain about the feeling of paternity that comes to men too late. In family births, having survived the happiness of birth with his wife, a man becomes a father at once – here and now. The child is immediately “ours” – he does not share, but unites spouses. It is difficult to imagine that after family births, the mother will say about the child “mine” so that this will sound: “mine, not yours” or the father will have the question of whether it is a male thing – to get up at night to the child and change it at night and change diapers. Doctors unanimously repeat that family births are favorable for the state of the baby.
Probably, far from right away and not everyone will agree that family birth is good. This will not be acceptable for everyone. There will be their medical restrictions. But let’s hope that there will be more and more for those who wish, as family births strengthen the family and allow you to be one whole.